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Love your work! – Fanning out #Racism

©Ben Smyth with Nadiya Hussain Milton Keynes c/o Respect at Work Ltd

@DeniseBranch recently posted about her delight upon seeing a car in front of her in USA displaying an anti-racism sticker and how important these small acts are appreciated in the fight against #racism. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/denise-branch-530938107_endracism-endantiblackness-endxenophobia-activity-6568216161438228480-XB8L

Many BAME (Black and Minority Ethnic) people individually battle daily with racism, often in pockets of isolation and sometimes in full public glare while trying to perform at the top of their game aka Black Footballer’s. It’s akin to having to work twice as hard with a big smile despite the ball and chain on your ankle. Denise’s post has prompted me to recall a photograph of a lovely young man, Ben Smythshared with me and we agreed I could share it, if the right moment came along as it’s a lovely story.

Ben was an active football player who due to a knee injury had his fledging ambitions curtailed. He is an avid football fan but also became a dedicated follower of the much-loved BBC TV series ‘Bake Off’ competition, so we have a shared interest. He loves to come over to sample the food my husband cooks and my baking. In fact, he’s coming over today so I will keep this short.

One of the most high-profile winners of the ‘Bake Off’ show (2015) was Nadiya Hussain,a young Bangladeshi mother with the most endearing smile and facial expressions that beautifully captured the hi’s and lo’s of her journey to stardom.

  • After winning in 2015 I recall Nadyia’s heart felt words that still stay with me: “I’m never gonna put boundaries on myself ever again. I’m never gonna say I can’t do it.”
  • “I’m never gonna say ‘maybe’. I’m never gonna say, ‘I don’t think I can.’ I can and I will.” 

So no matter what you excel at, it’s always a good confidence booster when someone let’s you know they appreciate all your hard work.

Ben had clearly not realised the effect it would have upon him seeing his hero Nadiya Hussain literally pull up alongside him whilst boringly driving along in Milton Keynes, eyes fixed on the road ahead. Suddenly, he did a double take and started hyperventilating in excitement. The traffic lights changed before he could attract Nadiya’s attention with his frantic waving at her. She either was genuinely focused elsewhere or pretended not to see this somewhat strange young white man waving and then banging on his window repeatedly: ‘was he friend or foe?’ So animated was Ben, he paid no heed to how he might be perceived in the context of the racist hate she had also experienced alongside the appreciation. Hurt can leave a lasting impression.

Either way Ben was determined not to leave her side until he had said a proper ‘Hello, love your work’ moment. He, some would say ill advisably, such was his youthful exuberance, decided to chase after her in his car for some miles, both speeding up until he finally managed to pull alongside and ask with a winning smile for a photo. Reassured he was a fan, Nadiya was met by 6’ 7” Ben who thoughtfully crouched down to Nadiya’s height so as not to inadvertently intimidate her any more than he had already done so! They had a laugh at how he must have appeared when persistently waving and following her.

So, we all need to to be able to put ourselves in other people’s boots as we don’t know what their back story is. This is a happier story than the one many BAME experience when waving for an empathetic response to their pain feeling they are saying: ‘I am drowning not waving’. So take a moment and use your smile and wave this weekend to delight someone.

Safia Boot – Founder Respect at Work Limited

Date: Saturday 17 August 2019

http://www.respectatwork.co.uk

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©Ben Smyth with Nadiya Hussain Milton Keynes c/o Respect at Work Ltd

Beyond Recruitment – Creating an Inclusive Culture

There is nothing like a skills shortage[1] to concentrate the attention of organizations on the issue of neglected sources of talent.  However, the challenge is not only to address the skills shortages, but also to create a working environment that will enable the under-represented and everyone to flourish. This requires an investment in upskilling the whole team’s soft skills and knowledge to truly reap the benefits of diversity given the challenges for working with people different to ourselves.

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At the recent Women in Technology conference organized by the E-Westminster Forum many of the speakers focused on how to encourage more young women to consider technology careers or how to attract women into technology, however, I believe the challenge goes deeper.    We have to not only make technology attractive to hire women and BME’s, but also make the technology workplace a place where they can flourish and thrive.   This will create a virtuous circle of not only retaining, but enabling people to build skills and careers and demonstrate ‘tech’ is where you can realise your dreams and aspirations.  In short, it builds a better ‘employer proposition’ based on inclusion and diversity.

Now is a great time to work in technology, there is a huge demand for skills and technology is profoundly changing the way we live our lives.  However, despite being a relatively new industry ‘Tech’ companies seem in some respects to be run in traditional ways and many ‘techie’ cultures are based on mainly male perspectives. If, new hires are simply required to ‘fit in’ to the prevailing culture, it is highly likely they will leave or if they do stay they will not thrive and flourish.   A recent survey of Silicon Valley ‘tech’ companies [2]  showed just how difficult life can be for women in these companies.  For example, 66% felt excluded from key social and networking opportunities because of their gender; 90% of women have witnessed sexist behavior; 84% have been told they were too aggressive; 88% experienced questions being addressed to male peers that should be addressed to them; 75% women were asked about their family life, marital status and children in interviews; 60% reported unwanted sexual advances and 60% were dissatisfied with the way their sexual harassment concerns were handled.   BME experiences of the technology sector are also heavily biased, African Americans are poorly represented in USA technology companies, only 1.5% of Facebook’s US workforce, 1.7% in Twitter, just 2% in Yahoo and Google and 7% in Apple[3]

Simply tackling the lack of gender and BME diversity during recruitment is like putting water in a bucket with a hole, the practices of existing management and unconscious bias may have only taken thirty years to develop in the technology sector, but are unlikely to disappear overnight, without significant intervention and commitment.    There is a need for training and development to support a strategic workforce plan and a clear diverse and inclusive employee proposition.   This should include: developing empathy, coaching, mentoring and advocacy skills; managing conflict through facilitation and mediation skills; robustly investigating diversity-related concerns; increasing awareness of unconscious bias, promoting networking and giving and receiving constructive feedback.   The HR function should not just focus on recruitment campaigns, but build HR policies and practices which position mutual respect, diversity and inclusion as a means to attract, retain and build a smarter, fairer and more effective workplace for all. Then “tech’ can truly claim to be building a better world and not just a better gadget or app.

Why not share what you are doing to move the diversity agenda forward in your organisation or discuss how you can overcome some of the challenges?

References:[1] Exploring the IT Skills Gap 2016 Survey – TEKsystems.com;        [2 ElephantInTheValley.com – Survey; [3] Black Politicians to push Silicon Valley giants on ‘appalling’ diversity. Guardian 30 July 2015.

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